Rebuilding Foundations

An exploration of international development work in Africa

Hate Crimes

Absolutely incredible piece of writing.  The beginning is heartbreaking, but it’s worth reading right to the end.

http://www.alternet.org/gender/hate-crimes-rape-every-minute-thousand-corpses-every-year

 “So many men murder their partners and former partners that we have well over  1,000 homicides of that kind a year — meaning that every three years the death toll tops 9/11’s casualties, though no one declares a war on this particular terror. (Another way to put it: the more than 11,766 corpses from domestic-violence homicides since 9/11 exceed the number of deaths of victims on that day and all American soldiers killed in the “war on terror.”) If we talked about crimes like these and why they are so common, we’d have to talk about what kinds of profound change this society, or this nation, or nearly every nation needs. If we talked about it, we’d be talking about masculinity, or male roles, or maybe patriarchy, and we don’t talk much about that.”

“What’s the matter with manhood? There’s something about how masculinity is imagined, about what’s praised and encouraged, about the way violence is passed on to boys that needs to be addressed. There are lovely and wonderful men out there, and one of the things that’s encouraging in this round of the war against women is how many men I’ve seen who get it, who think it’s their issue too, who stand up for us and with us in everyday life, online and in the marches from New Delhi to San Francisco this winter.

“Increasingly men are becoming good allies — and there always have been some.  Kindness and gentleness never had a gender, and neither did empathy.”

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